There’s something funny about fear. It looks massive from afar—like a grey nurse shark in the deep—but when you get close, it’s often just a sleepy giant, doing its thing, while you're the one panicking in the wetsuit.

This month in the KonMari Club, we’re talking about 💸money. And oof—money fear might be the slipperiest of all. It’s not loud like a crashing wave or obvious like a steep snowboard slope. It’s sneaky. It shows up as anxiety, overworking, or hoarding things “just in case.” But here’s what I know now: that fear is an illusion. And this truth didn’t come from a finance book. It came from some very real, very messy, and sometimes hilarious life lessons.

Let me take you back.

这次茶会让我体会到，哪怕时间短，只要心念纯一，依然可以唤醒“身心怡乐”的静定力量。组织虽辛苦，但能让一群人共同体会片刻清明，是非常值得的。如果你想参加，请和我联系。

In my journey of mindfulness and intentional living, the practice of tea ceremony has become a profound way for me to cultivate presence and joy. Tea-making is more than just brewing leaves in hot water; it is a meditative practice that requires full focus, precision, and deep awareness. Through its seven steps, I have learned to anchor myself in the present moment, appreciating the subtle yet powerful details of each movement, sound, and aroma.

According to Gretchen Rubin’s Four Tendencies, Questioners and Obligers approach motivation and decision-making in unique ways, and understanding these tendencies can help you unlock your spark of joy.

In this blog, we will explore how Questioners and Obligers can apply the KonMari Method™ to their spaces, while understanding their individual strengths and challenges. Before diving into that, let’s first take a brief look at the Four Tendencies:

Letting go of belongings can be an emotional challenge, especially when guilt holds us back. Whether it's gifts from loved ones, sentimental items, or things we "might need someday," the guilt of parting with these possessions can feel overwhelming. The KonMari Method™ offers a mindful, gratitude-focused approach to decluttering, allowing you to release what no longer serves you without guilt. Here’s how you can do it:

Feeling overwhelmed by clutter—whether physical, emotional, or mental—is a common challenge. The KonMari Method™ offers a structured and mindful approach to tackling these feelings, allowing you to declutter with confidence and purpose. Instead of avoiding or suppressing the overwhelm, we acknowledge it, understand its root cause, and take intentional steps to release what no longer serves us.

The KonMari Method™ is more than just tidying—it’s a transformative approach to creating a home and lifestyle that truly brings you joy. By mindfully engaging with your space, clarifying your vision for happiness, and taking intentional actions, you can align your environment with your ideal lifestyle. Here’s how: